Relationships?

[Cecilia Peromi]

You have kids Styxx?

[Styxx Von Doom]

One and lets just say I was lied to when married, the woman got what she wanted...

[HyenaKing]

You definitley put it well. I just didn't feel up to speaking that much due to the enviroment. For me, it's just been frustrating because i've dated a countless number of people, trying my best to not being a 'date too fast' kind of thing. I've dissapointed myself too many times. And, I feel helpless sometimes. Even though i'm not, I just can't help myself. I **censor** one relationship up that was on the track for marriage All by myself. What is wrong with me?  Eh, probably something's wrong with me, and im another case of someone who dies alone.

I wouldn't say something like that, but I feel you. I don't know what it even means to love someone because I've never had it. No one ever talked to me in highschool, I never did a thing to anyone and I wasn't liked..........so I guess I know what you mean. Still though, I haven't given up looking.

Seems like, instead of not being with anyone, i've been with quite a few. And I struggle. Im single and it's somewhat easy for me to get another girlfriend. But still, I don't want to do it anymore, i've failed more than anybody I know. It's just what it is.

[Ventus Fall]

@Cecilia

Relationships is a lot about personal experience and taste. It's about getting to know about yourself and how you can figure out what kind of person you want to be together with. It's best not to actively search for someone or to cling to someone, but to rather let things happen as they develop. Forcing it could make you and/or the person you want to be with feel trapped, which eventually in most cases end up in separation.
It is also best to be yourself, and to be together with someone who isn't afraid to be themselves. It will be extremely tiring and so-not-worth it if you or your (potential) partner end up trying to be someone they're not. This too in most cases will end up in separation.

With so much things that can go wrong, it may seem silly to continue a quest to find your eventual partner, if anything. But see failures more as a way to learn rather than failures. Most people don't learn form their mistakes and thus in each new relationship tend to make the same -or similar-  mistakes. Sure it can be aggravating to have one relationship after another fail, and it's totally ok if someone decides they are just not meant to be together with someone or if they are better off alone. As long as they are happy with their choice.


I can go on and on, but I think I summarised all my thoughts reasonably tidied up ^^
That is what advice I can give to you
I hope this helps.

[Cecilia Peromi]

Thanks Ventus, I'm confident that I'll find love one day. I'm just waiting for the right person I guess.

[Dexter Dare]

there's a famous saying, girls mature very quickly, boys never really mature at all    but where not all bad honest

[Dexter Dare]

yes it honestly a struggle to see how some guys i know treat the girlfriends, now i always aim to be a gentleman though it's never appreciated 

[HollowOfHaze]

No, boys don't mature. cx Some are just more polite than others.

I can say that I matured a good bit in the past several years.

[Cecilia Peromi]

Umm... D-does anyone like... flab?

[Dexter Dare]

yeah i know but i dont see how slapping a strangers back side calling here a female dog or some description of a sex worker is preferable to talking and having a drink (but i mean in a relationship too)

[Dexter Dare]

yeah i know but i dont see how slapping a strangers back side calling here a female dog or some description of a sex worker is preferable to talking and having a drink (but i mean in a relationship too)

I never said that. I actually concur that being a gentleman and always respecting women (or apeople in general, honestly) is the right thing to do. I jut said that it will bring you nowhere in itself.


That being said, you'd be surprised how low of a self-esteem many people have, both those giving and those receiving backside slapping. You can't really do anything about that, and it's not really your problem. Aim for better people.

yeah sorry i have difficulty explaining and wording things sometimes    and personal no cecelia, well depends how much personally don't mind a bit but remember everyones different  [size=78%] [/size]

[HollowOfHaze]

I'm not one for the whole "be a gentleman" ideal. I prefer to just be a nice person. Nothing special about that.

[HyenaKing]

Umm... D-does anyone like... flab?

People exist out there that can see past stuff like that.

[Goblin Cat 😸]

Umm... D-does anyone like... flab?

People exist out there that can see past stuff like that.

There are also people who enjoy that. Doesn't necessarily have to be looked past as if it's a flaw.

[Rho'Syn Ilwynog]

I've been in a relationship with my fiancée for growing on two years. 18 months exactly.