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Re: Help.
« Reply #15 on: December 27, 2015, 06:10:36 PM »
Wow. >~> Boy oh boy, this stuff can get scary.
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Re: Help.
« Reply #16 on: December 27, 2015, 06:14:16 PM »
To put a realistic spin on this (not that I don't believe in ghosts) Recurring nightmares can be a symptom of PTSD. Have you ever had a traumatizing or near death experience Wrath?
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Re: Help.
« Reply #17 on: December 27, 2015, 06:20:25 PM »
Oh, many.
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Re: Help.
« Reply #18 on: December 27, 2015, 06:21:57 PM »
I hate to break it to ya, but the paranormal ain't real. If it is really a demon, stop worrying, bring in a scientist, and make millions proving it to the world. Trust me, I would be too excited to argue if you have convincing scientific proof, and you will likely be too rich to care.

To be completely honest, making yourself believe it IS paranormal, will probably make the "manifestations" worse.

Now as for the issue... well. Most dreams relate to real world stuff in some way. What is actually bothering you in the real world? Often reducing stress will help in my experience. If its really bad, you might need to see a professional.

edit: If you have experienced traumatizing events, you really ought to see a professional.
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Re: Help.
« Reply #19 on: December 27, 2015, 06:25:34 PM »
As someone who also suffers from PTSD I was. Going to say that's what it sounds like.

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Re: Help.
« Reply #20 on: December 27, 2015, 06:45:32 PM »
Yes, and while therapy might not sound very appealing to you. It will help you a great deal. It's not what you think it is, a therapist only wants to help you with your issues.
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« Reply #21 on: December 27, 2015, 07:17:02 PM »
Yes, and while therapy might not sound very appealing to you. It will help you a great deal. It's not what you think it is, a therapist only wants to help you with your issues.
I had therapy for 2 years and it did not help me at all.
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« Reply #22 on: December 27, 2015, 07:19:43 PM »
Well why do you think that is? Was it the therapist? I've had some bad therapists before.
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Re: Help.
« Reply #23 on: December 27, 2015, 07:21:29 PM »
I believe she was a good person. I dont think it's for me.
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« Reply #24 on: December 27, 2015, 09:19:40 PM »
You can have a therapist that is a good person but does absolutely nothing for you.

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« Reply #25 on: December 27, 2015, 09:21:59 PM »
Hmm.. Is that possible? I guess so.
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Re: Help.
« Reply #26 on: December 27, 2015, 10:59:31 PM »
You can have a therapist that is a good person but does absolutely nothing for you.


Very true.  Therapists are people too and sometimes they are not the right person for the job.  That being said, I always think it's a good idea to learn about skills that help keep stress down and happiness up and you can learn those online or from a licensed therapist. 


You need to be entirely focused on your work however. You cannot half ass it and expect it to work.


If anyone has read the Dresden Files, you know that any kind of spell, magic, or prayer requires faith.  If you don't believe in what you are doing, it won't work.  I don't know if that applies to real life since the books are fiction but it's what popped into my head when I read this. 




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Re: Help.
« Reply #27 on: December 28, 2015, 06:39:16 PM »
Friggin' heck, man! That's terrifying!
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Re: Help.
« Reply #28 on: December 28, 2015, 06:41:38 PM »
Do not worry yourself sick. I have a strong will.
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