This is a little variation on my thread about how much you'd like to be a werewolf (or were-something of choice). Now I'd like you to follow this scenario:
You get to know a person. Sweet, kind, awesome or whatever. In short a person you could fall in love with. Now, this person happens to be a werewolf, and turns in front of you. Or alternatively, they tell you about their condition.
Do you still want to go out with them?
Below is a little chart where you can determine what they will be like. You have 5 points you can distribute to your liking.
Wolf-Human
1p: Full wolf behaviour and instincts
2p: Less feral behaviour
3p: Behaves like a human
Language
1p: Growls, howls, barking etc.
2p: Can form simple phrases
3p: Full competence of language
Forced-Control
1p: Turns every full moon
2p: Can skip 25% of full moons
3p: Can skip 75% of full moons and turn at will any night
Example:
Wolf-Human 2
Language 1
Forced-Control 2
And you can make arguments and detailed explanation for your choice if you so wish