WWYD?

[Kabuki]

I know this technically isn't related anything to the forums but since i'm a hard head and need suggestions help?
What would you do if your mother was betrayed harshly this time and as soon as he came home she was breaking it off, but
you and your mother have to rely on him since he's the co-owner of the house your living in and the person who pays and signed you onto his cell phone plan..?

Help...?

[Something]

im trying to figure out that question myself
i have the exackt same problem and i cant seem to be able to fix it.

[sasuke2910]

errr... can i have a hint

i don't understand the question

[Nikolai]

Give more details to the status of the relationship exactly, and the events that caused the decisions.

[Kabuki]

They were going to be married meaning jerry was my mothers fiance or whatever. He lied that his father was in death or life state, he had just had surgery and his mom (my grandmother) sent him emergency airline tickets. But instead went on a cruise with his daughters and some chick...My mother was betrayed beyond point and she left him. And i have no clue as to what i'm suppose to do since he's the co owner of the house we live in, AND the person whose cell phone plan i'm on

[Nikolai]

Confront him about it and work it out.

However, don't give up hope just yet. Keep compassion and forgiveness as a main priority before accusations. Don't make him leave, and don't make him feel like he has to. Real love lasts for years upon years, and if you let a relationship that is set to be married die out now, then you're in more than financial trouble.

But make sure your mother is ready to completely accept him for what he's done before talking about it. If a grudge or anger is still held, it won't work out in the end.

Hope that helps.

[Kabuki]

My mother already LEFT him

[Nikolai]

Then what problem do you have? What's done is done then. If he cancels the phone plan and kicks you out of the house, then there's not much you can do to stop him. =\ I don't know the legalities of it all, but from the sounds of it your best bet is to just do what you can so it doesn't happen, and if it does, try to make things work. Sorry.

[Kabuki]

Bah >.< I really love my step father but i dunno, he'll end up coming back and turning it all around and blaming it on my mother
And the sad thing is he doesn't believe in karma but yesterday he slipped sliced his knee upm got three broken ribs, AND a concussion so...everyone wins right?

[Nikolai]

Bah >.< I really love my step father but i dunno, he'll end up coming back and turning it all around and blaming it on my mother
And the sad thing is he doesn't believe in karma but yesterday he slipped sliced his knee upm got three broken ribs, AND a concussion so...everyone wins right?

Karma, coincidence, fate, it's all the same. ^^

[Kabuki]

Well he got what he got i guess