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girl trouble...
« on: December 02, 2008, 04:31:34 PM »
hmm...where to start, well the title explains it all....im have some trouble with the ladies and dont know what to do...anybody think they could give a wulf some advise?
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #1 on: December 02, 2008, 04:36:13 PM »
we kinda need more details.
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #2 on: December 02, 2008, 04:46:54 PM »
that makes sense....well im quite shy when comes to dating...and there is this i want to get with but i dont know how to aprooch her about it...
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #3 on: December 03, 2008, 12:29:47 AM »
Honesty.

That's it. Brutal honesty.

Know everything you can, and try to get it from the most direct source possible.


Relationships are really very simple if you can make sure that both sides of the relationship know exactly what the other is feeling. So it's simple, start off by telling her exactly how you feel. Don't sugarcoat it, but don't make it mushy or depressing. Just try to be as honest as possible.

Now, keep that in mind as a key factor. But the process should go like this.

1. Get to know her. See what kind of friends she has, learn information about her as best you can. (Myspace is a wonder for this)

2. Hold a conversation. You don't have to talk about anything awkward, but just find the most basic topic to bring up and approach her casually about it. For example, a girl who just moved to a new school. The most obvious question would be to ask her how she's fitting in.

3. After you know more about her, ask her. Tell her everything.
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #4 on: December 03, 2008, 12:48:48 AM »
ya just move in and have a convo with her lol, thats makes falling for you easy lol, i know how that feels, just go up and ask about classes or such, just a little something, if she's chilling alone or in the halls, say hi and ask how it's going (as long as she isn't busy)
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #5 on: December 03, 2008, 02:49:18 AM »
Hm... I have troubles with guys too... I go up to this one guy, say "Hey, howzit going?" and he gives me this strange look... :'(  I'm not good at starting conversations...
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #6 on: December 03, 2008, 02:52:49 AM »
It's all in the approach and the intention. The first three words are always the hardest to say, but after that it gets much easier.
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #7 on: December 03, 2008, 03:37:20 AM »
Quote from: ShadoWolf800 on December 03, 2008, 02:49:18 AM
Hm... I have troubles with guys too... I go up to this one guy, say "Hey, howzit going?" and he gives me this strange look... :'(  I'm not good at starting conversations...

Yeah that happens to me too. Whenever I say "hi" or just give a small nod in hello that other guy looks at me and calls me a slang term for gay guy. Everytime! It's like it's written on my forehead 'I'M GAY'. Is it how I look?
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #8 on: December 03, 2008, 03:40:35 AM »
(Sad) People just don't care anymore... Its like, girls can hug each other and do a BUNCH of other things, but guys can't do any of that stuff... And what's wrong with being gay? Hmm?
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #9 on: December 03, 2008, 04:20:56 AM »
It has to do with testosterone and the personality between somebody.
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #10 on: December 03, 2008, 12:03:05 PM »
Basically if there is a click then there's a click if there's not then go for a friendship. You can't quite just go up and expect a date I mean you need to be able to talk to them maybe get a hug every once in a while and once they start to hang with you more and give you things such as said hug then they are loosened enough to hang out. And to avoid humiliation first off ask how the boyfriend is because usually they have one. If not then go for it. Well that's not how my last gf and I happened but that's my kick at it.
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #11 on: December 03, 2008, 02:16:02 PM »
:'( I went up to the guy and he said "You freak the...poo* out of me"

* I mean the curse word...
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #12 on: December 03, 2008, 04:19:01 PM »
I'm just giving up on relationships, love isn't worth it, so i'm going to stick with drunken one night stands. ^_^
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #13 on: December 03, 2008, 04:30:12 PM »
have fun with those infections, Manual. :P

but anyways...
it really depends on the person when you wanna know how to approach them and everything.
believe me, I'm not the type to have the courage to ask people out, and I never did...which is sad, but I'm lucky my bf/fiance had the courage, although I was actually so comfortable with him and how I believed we felt about each other that I would've asked him out probably.
but yeah...basically, just get to know the person in the best way that you can and make it so eventually you feel comfortable around them...and if you believe that they like you in return, go for it.
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Re: girl trouble...
« Reply #14 on: December 03, 2008, 04:37:57 PM »
Hey, i'll just mix vodka and penicillin lol
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