I'm in trouble now.

[Wolfgang]

Keep in mind that there are minors around here, and that we don't advocate use of any drugs.

sorry Zepher.

[Somebody]

 I'm with Vos and Rigor on this one. Your way to young to even consider drugs and alcohol as an alternative to your problems in life. You 16 you couldn't even begin to comprehend what real problems are, instead you take a cop out and do them thinking its the easy fix. Its easy to respect somebody who faces their problems without turning to such methods. I however have no respect to one that would rather bury their supposed problems in cigarettes and alcohol. No matter what it might feel like they only add to the problems, because even as you drown them they only persist.

  Secondly you should have more respect for your parents, they are the ones they are gonna be there for you when everybody else turns on you. If you don't care what they feel about when it comes to their son's life, why should we even care about your problem. You have to give respect to receive it and I for one am not in the charity business.

[PhantomStone]

yep, tezz basically just said what i said, but much simplier. thank you.

[¿ Jesse Pawman ?]

If you lived in the US, this new deal that Obama has made with the FDA should help a little. It will restrict the use of tobacco by controlling the amount of stuff in it and by removing mislabeled marketing.

[Armalite_]

I'm not exactly sure where to start on this. I understand what you're saying. But it's because I haven't given you the whole story that you're getting a little thrown off. Now you're probably confused or thinking I'm extremely retarded...possibly both. The thing is, I respect my mom but I don't have respect for my dad because he doesn't have for respect me (So why would I respect him? huh?). Most of the time, he is a total ********. Every time I try to do something, it just isn't good enough for him. He isn't around much but when he is, he's always yelling at me, he thinks I'm a lazy, useless pile of **** who always ***** up. But I don't, I'm not and I know it. I love my parents but I would like some recognition and appreciation at least once without him making fun of me for something else. The last thing I need is someone telling me I don't try or don't try hard enough.

I feel isolated, backed into a corner, and that the only way to make my dad satisfied with me is if I was out of the picture entirely. He doesn't respect me when I try or when I fail or even offer support. Like you said, why should I care? This is the reason I feel like killing myself. I'm tired of it. He makes me feel so useless, I don't even want to bother with anything. I stopped doing things I enjoy because he made me feel as if I sucked at everything, so now I see that if this is how my life is going to be then **** it. I don’t know if you know what it feels like when your best is never good enough for your own father and the only thing that is keeping me alive is my mom and my friends. The smoking and drinking is my own problem but I don’t know if it’s because they give me a good feeling or if it’s because I find solace in the fact that it’ll eventually kill me that I continue. I respect those who respect me when I try and for when I do a good job. I respect my friends, my mom and even all of you for even replying.

Happy ******* father's day, dad.


Watch your use of language, bleeping it out does not excuse it.

   ~ Tezztor

[KittKat chunky~]

well i'm really sad to hear that spike....... i know how it feels to have someone put you down at every turn............. i really dont know how i can help you except keep posting here and trying to make you feel wanted..........

[Armalite_]

Honestly, dude...like I don't want to talk about this any further but I'd still like to hear your thoughts about it. Thanks Cat.

Sorry, Tezz, I will.

[Goblin Cat 😸]

I'm not exactly sure where to start on this. I understand what you're saying. But it's because I haven't given you the whole story that you're getting a little thrown off. Now you're probably confused or thinking I'm extremely retarded...possibly both. The thing is, I respect my mom but I don't have respect for my dad because he doesn't have for respect me (So why would I respect him? huh?). Most of the time, he is a total ********. Every time I try to do something, it just isn't good enough for him. He isn't around much but when he is, he's always yelling at me, he thinks I'm a lazy, useless pile of **** who always ***** up. But I don't, I'm not and I know it. I love my parents but I would like some recognition and appreciation at least once without him making fun of me for something else. The last thing I need is someone telling me I don't try or don't try hard enough.

I feel isolated, backed into a corner, and that the only way to make my dad satisfied with me is if I was out of the picture entirely. He doesn't respect me when I try or when I fail or even offer support. Like you said, why should I care? This is the reason I feel like killing myself. I'm tired of it. He makes me feel so useless, I don't even want to bother with anything. I stopped doing things I enjoy because he made me feel as if I sucked at everything, so now I see that if this is how my life is going to be then **** it. I don’t know if you know what it feels like when your best is never good enough for your own father and the only thing that is keeping me alive is my mom and my friends. The smoking and drinking is my own problem but I don’t know if it’s because they give me a good feeling or if it’s because I find solace in the fact that it’ll eventually kill me that I continue. I respect those who respect me when I try and for when I do a good job. I respect my friends, my mom and even all of you for even replying.

Happy ******* father's day, dad.


Watch your use of language, bleeping it out does not excuse it.

   ~ Tezztor

Welcome to my world. Except unlike you, this applies with both my parents. And I fail to see where we've implied that we think you're retarded. The only thing I can tell you is that you're going to have to get over it. It's not easy, but if you don't, you're going to throw your life down the toilet. So if you don't care about your dad like you say, why are you gonna throw your life away for him?

[Vee Katame: His Wolfy]

Your story is basically just like my mate's, except with him it's both his parents (like it is for Rigor), but his father is usually worse most of the time. Just the other night, his father started screaming about how much he hates him to his grandmother. That's quite horrible, if I do say so myself. Both of his parents never think anything he does is right or good enough. This isn't surprising though since (and I hate to stereotype but...) his parents are Chinese, and usually they expect absolute perfection...probably why they don't like me either (his father has gone a random tyrade about how much he hates me too to his cousin). That's not meant to be offending to anyone who is that race either, because I hate offending others and stereotyping.
But anyways, my mate had been considering suicide before too (came very close to commiting too), but he never did because he just became stronger from everything he has had to go through. When he was younger, he was always afraid to go home because his father used to hit him (until the principal of the school threatened to call Child Services). He has never smoked because of what he has to deal with and the only time he ever drinks is socially.
Really, you just need to push through all this and get stronger from it. Don't let it ruin your life. Don't let it break you.

[Armalite_]

That's what my mom keeps telling me. She's Chinese and my dad's German...but my mom doesn't expect much from me or complain if I'm short of perfect. She might clap or smile when I get an 85% average or something when I try but my dad would only tell me to do better. For me that's like saying be taller or magically be smarter. My dad can't hit me now because I can over power him and out run him (he's 51 I think) and my mom would yell at him causing me to lol.