The Furry Forums would like to place cookies on your computer to help us make this website better. To find out more about the cookies, see our privacy notice.
To accept the cookie click here, or please login or register.

Author Topic: Out of the closet  (Read 4056 times)

0 Members and 0 Guests are viewing this topic.

Offline Shuff Wolfcoon

  • Avid Aardvark
  • *
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years
  • Posts: 26
  • Gender: Male
  • I HAVE A NAME NOW!! ^_^
    • My DeviantArt
    • Awards
  • Species: Wolfcoon
  • Coloring: Mostly dark gray with some brown, as well as accents dyed neon green
  • Height: 5'3"
  • Build: Average
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #15 on: July 16, 2009, 03:32:05 AM »
bi here
 and like ikero-chu im out to a few friends but thats it

Offline ★Kuro★

  • Optimistic Owl
  • ********
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years Top 100 Poster
  • Posts: 1584
  • Gender: Female
    • Skype
    • Fur Affinity
    • DeviantArt
    • Facebook
    • Awards
  • Species: Wolf-dog
  • Height: 5'#0392"quot
  • Weight: 105lbs.
  • Currently: ;w;
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #16 on: July 18, 2009, 05:40:30 AM »
Lesbian, and out to my sisters, 2 cousins and my parents pretty much know.
All of my friends know as well.
When people ask me, I just tell them, "Yes, I am gay."

Offline Dessum

  • Friendly Flying Wolsky!
  • Velvety Vole
  • **********
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years Top 100 Topic Starter This user has donated to the forum more than once. This user has donated to the forum.
  • Posts: 2839
  • Gender: Male
  • Expect the worst and hope for the best.
    • Steam
    • Fur Affinity
    • My IMVU Homepage!
    • Awards
  • Species: Grey Wolsky (wolf-husky) with white feathered wings
  • Coloring: Different shades of grey, black hair, red eyes, wings are white
  • Height: Approx. 180cm
  • Weight: Approx. 11 stone
  • Build: Strong, quite muscular, nifty wings
  • Reference: [link]
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #17 on: July 19, 2009, 10:56:00 AM »
Wow, nice job Kuro^^

Out to my friends,
not at home though.

I'm the same as Kero here, I'm completely out as gay at school (Gonna buy a gay pride bracelet off eBay and wear it there ^_^)
but no where NEAR out to family!
 Too scared x3
Besides, I might change how I feel;
So when people say, "It could be a phase" I say, "Yes. But this is how I feel at present and that's what's important."

Offline Leo Dusai

  • Gregarious Gnu
  • ****
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years
  • Posts: 583
  • Gender: Male
    • Imvu - Leo Dusai
    • Awards
  • Species: Otter
  • Coloring: Brown base with cream markings
  • Height: 5'10ft
  • Weight: 9st
  • Build: Slim
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #18 on: July 19, 2009, 09:29:46 PM »
I'm gay and so far pretty much all of my family (Except my dad, but only because I haven't seen him in years.) and my friends know about it. They've all taken it well and have no problems. They make little jokes about it every now and then but only in the playful sense, nothing hurtful hehe.



"Teeter-tottering between brilliance and insanity."

Offline White Wolf Guardian

  • Wolgon Hat
  • Zoomorphic Zebra
  • **********
  • awards This user has donated more than $50 to the forum. Received through special limited time events Top 10 Poster This user has been a forum member for over 10 years
  • Posts: 9514
  • Gender: Male
  • I'm a wolgon!
    • Steam
    • Discord
    • Fur Affinity
    • Awards
  • Species: Wolf Dragon (Wolgon)
  • Coloring: White and Blue
  • Height: 10' long or 7' tall
  • Weight: 400lbs or 250lbs
  • Build: Thin
  • Reference: [link]
  • Currently: Healed up
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #19 on: July 21, 2009, 01:25:55 PM »
*Information has been deleted for privacy reasons*
« Last Edit: February 09, 2011, 08:21:19 AM by White Wolf Guardian »
  • Avatar by: SquareHeart
  • Signature art by: FluffyGorer

Offline Something

  • TFF's personal Victim
  • Jovial Jaguar
  • ******
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years
  • Posts: 815
  • Insert here
    • Awards
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #20 on: July 21, 2009, 01:45:33 PM »
Oh wow.white wolf that can't be easy for you.would they seriusly do that to you? i mean you're their son!would they throw you out only because a 2009 year book says so?
hope you will be free from that soon :)


- Shh
« Last Edit: July 21, 2009, 01:47:42 PM by Super happy Horror! »

Offline White Wolf Guardian

  • Wolgon Hat
  • Zoomorphic Zebra
  • **********
  • awards This user has donated more than $50 to the forum. Received through special limited time events Top 10 Poster This user has been a forum member for over 10 years
  • Posts: 9514
  • Gender: Male
  • I'm a wolgon!
    • Steam
    • Discord
    • Fur Affinity
    • Awards
  • Species: Wolf Dragon (Wolgon)
  • Coloring: White and Blue
  • Height: 10' long or 7' tall
  • Weight: 400lbs or 250lbs
  • Build: Thin
  • Reference: [link]
  • Currently: Healed up
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #21 on: July 21, 2009, 08:13:08 PM »
Well they wouldn't disown me at first, but the immediate next thing would be several visits to church pastor(s), deacons, a church psychologist, and then perhaps if worst came to worst an exorcist. In the end, I would have to change my "immoral and un-natural ways" back to heterosexuality or I be disowned. Yea it sure isn't my way of life around here and so long as I stay here I will never be free, this is the reason why I don't want to see them ever again after I can finally move east.
« Last Edit: July 21, 2009, 08:39:33 PM by White Wolf Guardian »
  • Avatar by: SquareHeart
  • Signature art by: FluffyGorer

Offline Asia Kali Yusufzai

  • Unique Unicorn
  • **********
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years Top 50 Topic Starter Top 100 Poster This user has donated to the forum.
  • Posts: 2742
  • Gender: Male
    • Steam
    • Fur Affinity
    • DeviantArt
    • Awards
  • Species: Rabbit
  • Coloring: Hot Pink
  • Height: 5'9
  • Weight: 9 stone
  • Build: GORGEOUS
  • Reference: [link]
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #22 on: July 21, 2009, 10:07:14 PM »
Well disconnecting yourself entirely from your family is debatable and is far in the future where you'll have time and space to clear your head of their constant presence, so you can decide then. Plus there's the fact that, as super happy horror said, you're their son. they will always want to atleast keep in touch and make sure you're safe. I mean if they're willing to go through all that to "free" you from your "immoral" ways then they clearly care about you, just like most families do... and just like most families, they tend to truly screw up your life.
"Parents always think kids are wasting their youth, and always have done [so] down through the millennia," says Tom Forsyth of RAD Game Tools. "'That Ug, always holding things. His front paws will develop in funny ways. Why can't he walk on all fours like normal proto-hominids?' And so, whatever the kids spend the most time doing, that's always what parents think is a waste of time, and what is corrupting their lives. It doesn't matter what that is. If all they did was homework, parents would be worrying that their kids aren't becoming well-rounded people. And, in fact, parents do this - enrolling math nerds in karate classes and the like. There is no way to win - parental paranoia ensures that kids are always doing the wrong thing."


Puncia's Foundraising Project

Offline White Wolf Guardian

  • Wolgon Hat
  • Zoomorphic Zebra
  • **********
  • awards This user has donated more than $50 to the forum. Received through special limited time events Top 10 Poster This user has been a forum member for over 10 years
  • Posts: 9514
  • Gender: Male
  • I'm a wolgon!
    • Steam
    • Discord
    • Fur Affinity
    • Awards
  • Species: Wolf Dragon (Wolgon)
  • Coloring: White and Blue
  • Height: 10' long or 7' tall
  • Weight: 400lbs or 250lbs
  • Build: Thin
  • Reference: [link]
  • Currently: Healed up
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #23 on: July 21, 2009, 11:12:20 PM »
You know I used to believe that and I used to believe there was such a thing as good guys and bad guys, but frankly I've been here so long I don't know who is what anymore. All I know is that ever since our Summer 2008 camping trip I have never felt the same about my parents, and it's a very personal matter, if anyone wants to know pm me, other than that I don't want to publicize that much information. But anyways, back to topic guys ^^;
  • Avatar by: SquareHeart
  • Signature art by: FluffyGorer

Offline Shenzii

  • Zoomorphic Zebra
  • **********
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years Top 50 Poster
  • Posts: 6042
  • Gender: Female
  • I've loved you for a thousand years ♥
    • Myspace
    • Awards
  • Species: Doberman
  • Coloring: Black, Rust Brown, Chartreuse
  • Height: 5'8"
  • Weight: 125lbs.
  • Build: Curvy but thin with muscle
  • Currently: Running around in circles
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #24 on: July 22, 2009, 02:28:19 AM »
I'm not exactly Straight... but i'm not totally bi... I totally prefer guys but I tend to 'experiment'
  • Avatar by: Kaprika
Animals are my passion and my career!!

Offline Tweak

  • Technical Dragon
  • Administrator
  • Optimistic Owl
  • ******
  • awards Received through special limited time events This user has been a forum member for over 10 years Top 50 Topic Starter This user has reported a valid and verified forum bug
  • Posts: 1495
  • Gender: Male
  • Rawr and such like.
    • Skype
    • Steam
    • Discord
    • Awards
  • Species: Dragon
  • Coloring: Black, gold and purple
  • Height: Varies
  • Weight: Varies
  • Build: Dragon-y
  • Currently: Bleh.
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #25 on: July 22, 2009, 04:35:44 AM »
Tweak is engaged-sexual.

What?

I'm still awaiting a proper reply to this. I dislike myself being spoken about unless it is made clear what is being said, particularly when such a thing is of a personal nature.
  • Avatar by: WingedZephyr

Offline Cyrocco

  • Boisterous Bear
  • **
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years
  • Posts: 149
  • Gender: Male
  • *BORED* W.M. N.J.
    • My myspace
    • Awards
  • Species: 3/4 fox 1/4 husky
  • Coloring: just look at mah pic XD
  • Height: fursona+me: 5'9
  • Weight: fursona:165lbs Me: 197lbs
  • Build: fursona:see pic. Me: some extra baggage DX
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #26 on: July 24, 2009, 10:28:52 PM »
Thought about being bi never had the chance to "express" it though. I go with the don't knock it till you try it thing. I have very mixed up feelings about being bi or gay, but my mother has brought it up and discouraged it and dad always said, " ill dishone you if your a," well you see where that's going. my friends aren't sure what I am lol I'm always messing with them and they can't tell 100% if I'm messing with them or I'm for real. which could be used to my advantage until  I finally figure it out.
 

Offline Dessum

  • Friendly Flying Wolsky!
  • Velvety Vole
  • **********
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years Top 100 Topic Starter This user has donated to the forum more than once. This user has donated to the forum.
  • Posts: 2839
  • Gender: Male
  • Expect the worst and hope for the best.
    • Steam
    • Fur Affinity
    • My IMVU Homepage!
    • Awards
  • Species: Grey Wolsky (wolf-husky) with white feathered wings
  • Coloring: Different shades of grey, black hair, red eyes, wings are white
  • Height: Approx. 180cm
  • Weight: Approx. 11 stone
  • Build: Strong, quite muscular, nifty wings
  • Reference: [link]
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #27 on: July 25, 2009, 07:49:06 AM »
Just wait to see how you feel.
I waited 2 years before coming out as bisexual, but at the beginning of my next year of school, I came out as gay.
 You shouldn't make any decisions before you know how you truly feel.

I'm bi-sexual *Survey results suggest: ~66% gay, ~33% straight* but I have it very deep in the closet

Don't always trust surveys like that. Everyone is different; I took one once and came out as Hetrosexual, so they can be wrong.
It's about who you are^^

Offline Scautty

  • Jovial Jaguar
  • ******
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years
  • Posts: 808
  • Gender: Male
  • Echelon - This Is War
    • YouTube (TheNepEcChannel)
    • Awards
  • Species: Wolf
  • Coloring: Red and black, white
  • Height: 6'5"
  • Weight: 250lbs.
  • Build: Towering, average build
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #28 on: July 25, 2009, 09:09:35 AM »
I'm Non-sexual!  :D

Just little virgin boy basically. (Not that everyone with affections have sex, but yeah...)

I mostly think girls look pretty, and some anthro girls look pretty too. But I'm really picky about it. Other than that I feel like a loser when my friends say someone's hot. XD

But yes. I totally have no problem with those that are gay, straight, bi or lesbian. It's actually kinda cute seeing people going around with thier mates. :3
This shall pass... Megalomania... Congratulations on mutilation for life.

UPDATE: Almost done with the mask!! Furred it all but the eye area, just gotta get to that and details like the nose and teeth. Now writing for new album!

Offline Cyrocco

  • Boisterous Bear
  • **
  • awards This user has been a forum member for over 10 years
  • Posts: 149
  • Gender: Male
  • *BORED* W.M. N.J.
    • My myspace
    • Awards
  • Species: 3/4 fox 1/4 husky
  • Coloring: just look at mah pic XD
  • Height: fursona+me: 5'9
  • Weight: fursona:165lbs Me: 197lbs
  • Build: fursona:see pic. Me: some extra baggage DX
Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #29 on: July 25, 2009, 01:44:43 PM »
Wish everyone was like you in the acceptance category lol
 

 

Powered by EzPortal

anything