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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #30 on: July 25, 2009, 02:48:27 PM »
I have a good theory on that. I have a feeling people who neglect those with different orientations are like that because they think right away about the sex. They don`t ever think about how people, no matter they like the same or different gender, have romance in between like anyone would. As for me, I think more on the affectionate side - the love. It`s really cool, and I don`t really care what they do to each other, but they find it romantic so they`re at peace. :3
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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #31 on: July 25, 2009, 07:02:34 PM »
I took about 12 different surveys and then averaged them out my friend T.T, but anyways it sounds right to me as well, I can be pretty feminine at times and I'm too soft for times when I should not be. I don't really think it's a bad average in %s, it gives me the opportunity to understand both sides better of the genders :P
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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #32 on: July 25, 2009, 08:58:05 PM »
I'm proper hetero, I'm really quite femenine. Atleast I'm the girl compared to my girlfriend, who is by no means masculine :)
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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #33 on: July 25, 2009, 09:37:20 PM »
wondering about what I really am is under my skin now, thank god im going on vacation tomorrow. hopefully that will clear my thoughts. I currently have a girlfriend and she loves me to death but I don't feel the same ( shes realy nice but I just don't feel the connection). so hopefully this vacation is what I need to clear my head and keep it together, and maybe even get closer to finding out the truth about what I like
 

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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #34 on: July 25, 2009, 09:54:05 PM »
wondering about what I really am is under my skin now, thank god im going on vacation tomorrow. hopefully that will clear my thoughts. I currently have a girlfriend and she loves me to death but I don't feel the same ( shes realy nice but I just don't feel the connection). so hopefully this vacation is what I need to clear my head and keep it together, and maybe even get closer to finding out the truth about what I like

Vacation's always help. I took a trip to New York (FUN!) and it really helped alot with the stress I had to deal with at the time. I guess it's that you're not in the same setting and area your stress takes place, so you leave it behind. And then when you get back, it's like you find a better way to confront it. Everything will work out Dirge.  ;)

Haha, I know alot of people that are feminine males. One of them's on my channel and he's like one of my best friends ever. It's pretty good to know the better sides of both genders as well, you get a good perception of how they work. (Then again, everyone works differently, but you can compare the chemistry between them and someone else.)  :P
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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #35 on: July 25, 2009, 09:56:03 PM »
In my opinion it's not really about what you like, but who you like :)

It doesn't matter what someone is, whether it be man or woman, as long as you and the other person are in love with each other. When you find that, all is well and then it's all about keeping it together and sticking through thick and thin :P

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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #36 on: July 25, 2009, 09:57:06 PM »
yeah vacations are good. I really want to go to philedalpheia since it is supposed to be a fun place and they host anthro con(a furry convention)

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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #37 on: July 25, 2009, 09:58:55 PM »
In my opinion it's not really about what you like, but who you like :)

It doesn't matter what someone is, whether it be man or woman, as long as you and the other person are in love with each other. When you find that, all is well and then it's all about keeping it together and sticking through thick and thin :P



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It's really cool the connections people make, I mean come one, it's cute when they're totally alike and when they're totally different kind of people. Other people don't think so, just because it's not THEIR affection, but it's good to step back and see everyone has their perspective and beauty in love.  :3
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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #38 on: July 25, 2009, 10:31:51 PM »
In my opinion it's not really about what you like, but who you like :)

It doesn't matter what someone is, whether it be man or woman, as long as you and the other person are in love with each other.




thats how I feel about relationships, but idk yet about myself, I guess in a way I want to but in a way I don't want to
 

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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #39 on: July 26, 2009, 06:44:14 AM »
It's just a matter of time and development. Give it a bit and it'll just come to you. It hasn't come to me, but I have the friends to get reference. :P
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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #40 on: July 26, 2009, 08:42:55 AM »
I dont think you should label yourself gay or straight or bi if you're not sure what you are. It really doesnt matter, just as long as you end up with someone you truly love.
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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #41 on: July 26, 2009, 03:28:39 PM »
True dat. Patience my friend. :3
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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #42 on: August 05, 2009, 05:37:18 AM »
got back from vacation last week, sorry I haven't updated this in a while I've been busy lol But I do feel a (for not being able to use other words) much better lolz my mind has cleared the thoughts at bay and my emotions are under lock and key tight control again. back to my " normal" self lolz
 

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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #43 on: August 05, 2009, 05:41:31 AM »
Very good, proud of you. :) Now it's just something you gotta control yourself - don't think about it too much, and find the best things to do to keep you distracted from it, like fun activities. ;)
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Re: Out of the closet
« Reply #44 on: August 05, 2009, 06:06:44 AM »
lol can you, describe some activities ;) lolz jk but yeah I've been pretty occupied lately, i've also done a lot of apoligizing to my current mate b.c. ive been ignoring her because of this massive brain spasm of thoughts. so yeah.... I feel like a (insert word of choice here)
 

 

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